We can get so comfortable with our family that we let down our guards to be who we want to be. It’s easier that way. But it’s not always better that way. There is a way that is better, every single time. The number one person you need to protect your spouse from is you.
Not to be the Grinch, but here are a couple of things to consider as you buy more stuff this Christmas.
Often, I don’t want things for my wife and kids as much as I want things from my wife and kids. And there is a huge difference. If we do chores around the house because we want something for our spouse, that’s different. We’re not doing it because we want to feel validated; we’re doing it because we want something FOR them.
Nothing draws your spouse to you more than acceptance—especially accepting the things they have a hard time accepting about themselves. What is that thing in your spouse that you admire but they don’t? Let them know it.
Welcome to the MarriedPeople podcast! MarriedPeople started to help churches help marriages by giving couples less content, more often. We’re now taking that method directly to couples on this podcast by giving them one practical thing to do with each episode.